Just few expressions for u...

Hazaar Raahein mud kar dekhi

Kahin se koi sada na aai

Badi wafa se nibhai tumne

Humari thodi si bewafai

Jahan se tum mod mud gaye the

Ye mod ab bhi wahi pade hain

Hum apne pairon me na jaane kitne

Bhanwar lapete hue khade hain

This post is dedicated to the only regular visitor of my blog.

Its said that, in litigation, we cannot afford to make our personal feelings visible on our faces. Perhaps this is the only profession in this country where a human being is supposed to be something more than a superhero. It is assumed in our profession that we don’t do anything except for law even during our normal course of life, if we are good advocates or are aspiring to become good advocates.

However I do not mean to say that I have lost my interest or enthusiasm towards my profession, but yes, its so early when I am thinking about taking a break from the profession. To this entire world, it would reflect that this is the same stupid thought which any irresponsible human who is lost in love or is lost by love would think at this stage and the same is nothing but the sign of the behaviour of a loser.

By and large, I also thought that the feeling of being lost in something like this is nothing but a kinda filmy move. But the truth remains that no one would be able to understand this feeling until he gets into it. This is a kind of stage where you also know that your acts are being stupid and impractical but you don’t have control on your actions. I know that this entire note would lead to futility as the same is subject to the feeling of a person who is lost by love.

Enough of philosophies have happened. The only point which I wanted to make is, anybody can make this statement that life is all about moving on and they think that they have acted in a very responsible way, but the difficult part is with the person who has been asked to move on.

Frankly speaking, I do not intend to make a sympathetic note or make a sorry statement but I just want to express one normal problem with the human life which is not normal for the person who is facing it.

I do not have any reason to complain. It has happened the way we wanted it to happen. We knew from the very beginning that we are not going to tie the knot. We knew that inter religion relationship does not have any future for the families like ours. We were cool with the thought that the time will take care of everything between us. Now when the time has taken enough care of all these things, I am trying to resist the decision of time.

It has been heard in stories, written in novels, shown in movies that the love and sacrifice are two sides of the same coin. We appreciate plays like Romeo Juliet or Laila Majnu and praise the sacrifice made by them for their love. But do we have any place for the stories where the desperate love for each other has been sacrificed to maintain the smile on the face of a father? Of course not. Instead we have comments to make that they did not have balls to take tough steps.

By this note, I would like to mention here that having balls in such situation is a very easy thing to do in life. It hardly takes time to decide according to our will and take step which is generally taken in movies, novels or stories.

So I adore her for being a fighter and doing what is good for her parents and the future of all other girls of her family, provided if she takes this kinda step then door for good higher education for all other girls of her family would come to an end.

I adore her for being a fighter. I adore her for being a support to everybody around her. I adore her for being great and still being simple. I adore her for living up to the expectation of the people who are responsible for her existence on this planet.

With these lines I rest my expressions here with the expectation that we get “practical” in our actions and “move on” as advised by the surroundings.

Litigation Diaries

Sometime, some decisions are not just decisions...

In my last semester of college life, almost everybody was certain about their professional life and so I was. I must admit that my so called preachers in college has made huge difference in my decision making power. Now I can suitably ignore such preaching and can decide my own course of life in a more straight forward manner. There are various set of people in this world. there is one set of people who is ready with their exactly opposite view whenever you seek for any opinion. One suitable example from my own life may be:

Me: Yar I was thinking for sitting for campus placements. I don't know whether I would be able to handle well with my uncertain career in litigation or not.

Mr. Concerned: I don't see any reason as to why you have been thinking like this when you were very much determined for your career in litigation. provided the kind of skills and innovation of ideas you possess, I personally feel that you should go for litigation.

After few days:

Me: yar finally I have decided not to sit for placements. now I'm sure that I am going for litigation and I know that I will do well.

Mr. Concerned: have you gone mad!!! you don't know about the no. of lawyers get enrolled every year. Perhaps you don't even know about the kind of uncertainty prevailing in the market. Moreover if you go for a job then then you will be sure about a sum of money coming at the end of month.

Needless to say that I kept mum and decided to choose my future without consulting this Mr. concerned again. moreover neither my grades nor my attitude towards the corporate legal world have made me survive in the world of job mongers. so finally I decided not to sit for college placements. Although many had to say that not much difference would have been created even if I was there.

Finally after contemplating a lot about how to begin my litigation career, I landed in this world of art. Probably I was one of the privileged people to start my practice independently from very first day under the guidance of Mr. K.K. Rai, Senior Advocate, Supreme Court of India.

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