Hazaar Raahein mud kar dekhi
Kahin se koi sada na aai
Badi wafa se nibhai tumne
Humari thodi si bewafai
Jahan se tum mod mud gaye the
Ye mod ab bhi wahi pade hain
Hum apne pairon me na jaane kitne
Bhanwar lapete hue khade hain
This post is dedicated to the only regular visitor of my blog.
Its said that, in litigation, we cannot afford to make our personal feelings visible on our faces. Perhaps this is the only profession in this country where a human being is supposed to be something more than a superhero. It is assumed in our profession that we don’t do anything except for law even during our normal course of life, if we are good advocates or are aspiring to become good advocates.
However I do not mean to say that I have lost my interest or enthusiasm towards my profession, but yes, its so early when I am thinking about taking a break from the profession. To this entire world, it would reflect that this is the same stupid thought which any irresponsible human who is lost in love or is lost by love would think at this stage and the same is nothing but the sign of the behaviour of a loser.
By and large, I also thought that the feeling of being lost in something like this is nothing but a kinda filmy move. But the truth remains that no one would be able to understand this feeling until he gets into it. This is a kind of stage where you also know that your acts are being stupid and impractical but you don’t have control on your actions. I know that this entire note would lead to futility as the same is subject to the feeling of a person who is lost by love.
Enough of philosophies have happened. The only point which I wanted to make is, anybody can make this statement that life is all about moving on and they think that they have acted in a very responsible way, but the difficult part is with the person who has been asked to move on.
Frankly speaking, I do not intend to make a sympathetic note or make a sorry statement but I just want to express one normal problem with the human life which is not normal for the person who is facing it.
I do not have any reason to complain. It has happened the way we wanted it to happen. We knew from the very beginning that we are not going to tie the knot. We knew that inter religion relationship does not have any future for the families like ours. We were cool with the thought that the time will take care of everything between us. Now when the time has taken enough care of all these things, I am trying to resist the decision of time.
It has been heard in stories, written in novels, shown in movies that the love and sacrifice are two sides of the same coin. We appreciate plays like Romeo Juliet or Laila Majnu and praise the sacrifice made by them for their love. But do we have any place for the stories where the desperate love for each other has been sacrificed to maintain the smile on the face of a father? Of course not. Instead we have comments to make that they did not have balls to take tough steps.
By this note, I would like to mention here that having balls in such situation is a very easy thing to do in life. It hardly takes time to decide according to our will and take step which is generally taken in movies, novels or stories.
So I adore her for being a fighter and doing what is good for her parents and the future of all other girls of her family, provided if she takes this kinda step then door for good higher education for all other girls of her family would come to an end.
I adore her for being a fighter. I adore her for being a support to everybody around her. I adore her for being great and still being simple. I adore her for living up to the expectation of the people who are responsible for her existence on this planet.
With these lines I rest my expressions here with the expectation that we get “practical” in our actions and “move on” as advised by the surroundings.
